Will we ever understand

[NightskyeB4Dawn]

The first big mistake people make is thinking everyone is just like themselves.

Close. The big mistake is "wanting" everyone to be just like themselves.

They know at first glance that the other is different from themselves, so they immediately go into either confrontation or avoidance mode.

If they they don't look the way they want them to, or don't think and believe what they want them to, they immediately become the enemy.

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