(11-29-2022, 05:51 PM)GeauxHomeLittleD Wrote: I'm having an issue concerning a deceased relative. Not a dearly beloved dead relative either but a bitch who made my life miserable and whom I was glad to hear passed on- one of my grandmother's younger sisters.
She was an evil woman who wore the mask of a "good Christian" to those outside the family. Among her list of attributes are things like working me like a slave, allowing her dogs to attack me, looking the other way as her husband sexually abused me (even blaming me every time I begged her to do something about it), constantly reminding me I wasn't as good as the rest of the family because I wasn't "blood kin" (mom was adopted) and even physically abusing my grandmother in her later years. Just the tip of the ice berg but you get the picture- not a good woman!
So dead relatives often visit me in my dreams. This has been going on for as long as I can remember. A lot of times through my dreams is how I find out a relative has passed before being told although sometimes it is scary when someone you don't even know is trying to force hugs on you in a dream but then the phone rings the next day and someone tells you "Great uncle such-and-such died" and then the dream makes sense.
So back to my point. This bitch of a great aunt started coming into my dreams the last year or two. years after she passed so not to say goodbye or anything. She first showed up when I kept having the dreams about the bears, after that she would pop up in my dreams every so often- but now she is in my dreams nearly every single night! Even if my dreams start out okay eventually this old hag shows up and the vibes quickly go downhill. Even though she isn't doing anything bad to me the sky gets dark, the shadows get long and a feeling of dread prevails-- like when she arrives she saps all of the joy and goodness out of the atmosphere. When she leaves the dreams things start lightening up again- the sun comes back out, the shadows retreat and people start becoming cheery again.
I have searched and searched online for answers but all I can find is stuff about deceased "loved ones" and nothing about deceased "despised ones" in dreams. She doesn't seem to be looking for closure or to apologize and I feel no need for closure myself, once I reached adulthood I left that bitch with no questions whatsoever of exactly what I thought of her and felt about her and cut her completely out of my life with no regrets. I know I sound angry but I really am! How dare this woman invade my dream world with her bad vibes!
I feel like all of this could be some kind of bad omen. There is nothing bad going on in my life, nothing outside the norm to worry about and no reason to think about this person in my waking life until she started invading my sleeping life more and more frequently. So WTF does this mean???
If anyone has any related links to any info I can check out concerning this PLEASE share! I just want this over with and if that can't happen I would at least like as much insight as possible. Thanks!
So, this is interesting.
I know this is an old OP, but I have a little insight to share. These are just things I've picked up along the way while looking into oppression of evil spirits, and such things.
It sounds like this person's spirit attached to you.
You're not going to like this part. I'm just being the messenger here.
The reason she was able to latch onto you, was thru that anger and resentment you're carrying. Its a strong connection between her and you. She's using it to torture you still. She must've had an equal hatred for you, and the two of you just linked up on a cosmic level.
I have advice to make it stop, if it hasn't already.
And you are really not going to like this one...
To break that connection you must get rid of that anger and resentment. You have to let it go, forgive however you can, and you will break that spiritual bond. If you break that link it will send her spirit away from you.
If you're game to try this I have a method you can try.
But now you'll really hate me...
Speak to her, in mercy. Tell her you forgive her. Try as hard as you can to let that anger go before you try, otherwise you could anger her even more towards you. You have to clear your heart and mind of that powerful negativity. It's the link between the two of you. But if you show her you've let it go, have given mercy and grace to her, and that powerful anger you had is gone, then she'll be released from you.
In a nut shell, you have to "let her go." I know you weren't purposely holding on. The anger was holding it.
I hope by now this has gotten better.
I good luck!