Woman in white is watching me

[MrJesterium]

I am a social butterfly. Or at least not the type to stay cooped up inside constantly.

I am the exact opposite, I didn't leave my apartment until 2021.

I'm not sure I want to run this one off just yet... My issue is, I don't think a cleansing will work. At least not for too long. I've tried.

Afaik DIY saging can worsen a situation if performed improperly.
Can you get yourself a Himalayan salt lamp? My clairvoyant friend Kate claims it works really well for her, but she wasn't sure whether it affected all ghosts or only bad spirits.

She told me: When you have abilties you often are met by many ghosts, so I would just ask these “strangers” how it felt to be near the lamp, if they are able to turn it off. So far it seems to be like two magnets pushing away from each other instead of pulling towards each other - is the feeling one of them said it had felt like.

She's considered to be a bad omen. An omen of an upcoming death or tragedy.

This legend is unfounded,
a lot of female ghosts wear white clothes.

In my reading of Justinus Kerner's Seeress of Prevorst, especially his account of Friederike Hauffe's last days, my attention was drawn to this passage:

"Three weeks before her decease, she had three times a second-sight, which also indicated the approaching catastrophe. There appeared to her a benign female figure, taller than herself, enveloped in black; she saw only the bust; the rest of the form was also wrapt in black, and stood in an open coffin, beside it was a white cross. The apparition beckoned to her, and she felt its cold breath. She said it was not a spirit, but a portentous second-sight; and well she knew what it foreboded."

I found a similar story in Cheiro's True Ghost Stories, Chapter VI:

"In another family that I have known for many years, the warning appears in the form of a sinister-looking figure of a white-haired woman who appears in the dead of night by the bedside of each member of the family in rotation. The one who does not have the visitation is the one who is to die... The ghostly white-haired visitor appears at the bedside with a lighted candle in her left hand. With the index finger of her right, she touches the sleeper’s face and forces the person to wake up and look at her."

Kerner shared another anecdote from his patient:

"Three successive days before the death of her father, at a time that the news of his illness had not reached her, she saw, when she was awake, a coffin standing by her bed, which was covered by a mort-cloth, on which lay a white cross. She was very much alarmed, and said she feared her father was dead, or sick...
Three times when awake she saw her mother-in-law looking into a coffin: seven days afterwards this lady fell ill, but she recovered. When Mrs. Hauffe saw the image of a person lying dead in a coffin, it predicted their approaching death,—if alive, a severe illness."

So just because a woman in white appears doesn't automatically mean she's an omen of death, it's more nuanced than that. There are accompanying signs, conditions, etc. which come with such appearances.

I turn and lock eyes with this woman in white....staring dead at me. Looking frantic.

She's frantic because she's concerned about your life spiralling out of control.

Similar case: https://old.reddit.com/r/Thetruthishere/...red_about/

Her eyes were wide open, as if she was looking through me, but the way she was looking at me was as if she was very scared about something. She told me with a shivering voice: "Run", I was very weirded out and was like: "What?!", she repeated herself as she was holding my arms, with the shiver in her voice I could hear the fear in her voice and see the fear in her eyes, she looked very worried about me, and kept repeating: "Run, you're in danger, Run, be careful out there."

There have actually been a lot of stories where strangers look people in the eye and warn them. I think they were either clairs, ghosts, or angels. https://pixeldrain.com/u/RWfc1Snj

She's got long dark hair,

Was she wearing a veil over her head, a head-covering? Hauffe said all female spirits without exception wore one in her days.

I had not even thought about addressing her yet. I'll wait and see if I see her again and then maybe try and communicate verbally first and see what response I get, if any.

Make sure to ask her about what happens to us after death. See the attached screencap.

Hauffe says, "I observe that the happy spirits have the same difficulty in answering questions regarding earthly matters, as the evil ones have in doing it with respect to heavenly ones; the first belong not to earth, nor the last to heaven." She added, "How the soul is to exist after death?, is assuredly a question worth asking!"

My mother will be 90 years old come November, and she has been seeing the lady in white for years.

I don't think she is a harbinger. If anything, she may be trail marker, warning you that you are about to go off track.

This is a very intuitive answer!  Incidentally, Tom Brown, Jr. wrote about this in The Tracker:

"An omen is an insight that changes your way of seeing the world. It is a landmark against which everything that follows or preceded it comes to be measured... An omen is an experience that interprets all events that follow it and reinterprets everything that went before... Omens change our understanding of our relationship to the world. Nothing is ever exactly the same once you have experienced an omen."

My grandma is 99yo, she used to talk to empty space in her sleep and while awake, and she claimed to see a little boy come to her, but my mother dismissed it as hallucinations.

I have been battling fear. An unknown fear, or fear of the unknown.

You can't fight fear, that strengthens it, stop giving it any attention. Isn't there any subject you've been curious to learn about?